On Love

Girls know what they want. When they ask a question its for a reason. Girls know sometimes you only get one chance. Girls listen and when they talk they expect you to LISTEN to the information they are telling you. Girls are too smart to mistake lust for love, but will take the lust and see if it falls into love. Girls know love is blinding, We know to use our heads and let our hearts follow close behind. Yes, a girls best friends' opinion is important because if she is smart she knows that she is over come with butterflies and cant see everything the way it really is. Women see through the bullshit so don't game face, Say what you mean and mean what you say. Because that people that mind, dont matter and the people that matter dont mind.

Why Girls don't trust boys. We have all been lied to, cheated on, hurt. You. Me. Everyone. Still I don't believe in living our life in fear and with thoughts of what could have been. This will only lead you to a life full of bitterness, regret, and anger. We will talk about our last relationships and why they didn't work, or how far and hard we have let ourselves fall for someone and how hard it was to pick ourselves up in the end. We have wanted to have faith and dated, we have seen the games guys play.. because thats where we leaned them. We have heard you say you want to be with one girl because you're sick of the games and then we have seen pictures of you with other girls. Don't think for a second that we are naive because we don't call you out on your behavior. Smart women will step back and let you hang yourself and lose the chance you had with the girl you loved in the end.

Girls have seen it all. Girls have seen what appear to be sweet sensitive guys that turn out to still be heartbroken and full of baggage. We have dated guys that are way to crazy in love with sports to have room in their game schedule for a relationship. (and this is coming form a sports fan). Most Girls have also had dating encounters with the controlling miserable man, the cheater/player and the metro sexual that spends more time with our hair products then we do. Maybe worst of all the guy that refuses to grow up. The guy that has tons of potential and is everything you thought you ever-wanted but either will not move out of his parents, or constantly needs reassurance because hes unconfident of everything he's doing. Maybe he will not make a necessary career or education decision or follow his heart, or maybe he just is not ready for love with another person because he is still being selfish and thats ok, what's not ok is wasting to much time with a guy that is still being a boy.

Mindless games have mindless names but out from the darkness in the light came...

I believe in Love. Actually I believe only in love and light, few will understand how that vibration is at the heart of human existence however it is very relevant in the intuitions we feel and follow with the people we meet everyday. Connections are not coincidences. Ask me if you want to understand more but for now Im going to keep this simple.

If you ask my friends some may say I don't want to go near love with a ten foot pole and others would go as far to say Im boy crazy, one would even say it does not matter if he is Mr. Right because you two are together to teach each other a something. It just depends who you ask.

If you ask my ex boyfriends they would most likely suggest "Im the girl that got away and if you have a chance to make me yours don't mess it up."


The truth is no one can define love accurately. Some people can say love sucks, some can say it rocks their world, or some can have no comment at all. But the truth is when love comes it'll hit us all and we'll react in different ways but bottom line is we want love, we want to love and be loved. No matter how hard you push it away, love will still come to you. In different forms or gestures but it's still there whether you realise it or not. And when it comes you might not realise it at first but when you do love really is the best drug in the whole world and Love makes life easier when life gets hard.