I would tell my friends and family about good grades, work promotion or achievement. I have always been the over achiever maybe seeking more gratification or recognition that I will never obtain because I was seeking the wrong thing.
Then came my realization in a strange way. I was having a terrible week, nothing was going well, I was stressed, could not sleep and was not eating well. I was trying to solve a worlds worth of problems and upset about a series of family dramas that I felt took my energy. He told me "You don't have to tell me this about you I already know."
He is my go to person for everything in life good and bad and in between. He makes me laugh when I frown, solves my puzzles, fixes things that break, and knows how I feel so I don't have to tell him. Not to mention hes the life of the party and a great advice giver. I don't have to be someone amazing, I don't have to prove myself because to him I will always be someone he's proud of. That's when I realized I'm not only a very lucky girl for having this awesome friend but I also decided that there is a much better gratification then having achievements recognized, and sometimes it's simply not having them recognized.
It can be a father, husband, or friend but every girl needs a go to man in her life more then and great pair of heals.
Mine knows who he is.
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